9 months

Any one reading this a mother or father?or pregnant?


here's for you ! :)



oh my god, this can't be real, what if he doenst want to be a father what if he doesnt want to get married, you thought the worse after seeing that little plus sign but in the end it all went well, or maybe you were excited seeing the little plus sign, sending out those little colored gum cigars to your friends and family, it's a boy, it's a girl, it's twins, what ever excited news you had, you were so happy to see your bump finally showing, you each held it, he hugged it, kissed it, talked to it, you slowly began to clean that spare room, and put a crib and furniture in it, and painted the walls, excitedly, you talked to your family dog about how they can't lick the babies face, or get mad at the baby, but you can love the baby, cuddle the baby. 8 months into this deal, you had that scare, that wasn't suposed to happen, but the nurse said the heart beat was still there, and 9 months after that little plus sign, those 2 little lines, you hed a precious home made oven cooked child, you made this, you counted the toes, the fingers, you touched every single little part, couldn't believe that you made such a perfet little peice of heaven, you held them, scare you'd break them, and when he asked to hold them, you didnt want to let him, but he helped make them, you can't refuse that. You two take them home, lay them in the crib and wake up at 4 am to change their diapers, this is what makes you parents.

And you know what, Even if you missed that test, missed that birth, and those first few days or weeks, but you hold them in your arms, and you love them, and you take them like your own, your a parent. Even if your children are in heaven, you made them, even if you only had them for a few weeks, even if they were alive before labor and passed after, if they just werent strong enough, you did your best, and you are a parent. And god is there for you. :) Good luck you guys!! :D